Monday, May 29, 2006
Soul Mates
Soul mates... Do they exsist? When I was young my mother told me that no matter what happens everyone gets a happy ending if they truely deserved it. The fairy tales I read made everything seem so perfect. I was only seven years old and I had dreamt of my dream man. He who would ride a white horse and take me away. As I grew older that fantasy of mine became more surreal. How can I have true happiness when there was so much bad things going on around me.
I've had my ups and downs in all relationships... But I always wondered whether in the future I would meet Mr Right. I grew older and my Mr Right changed... yet I still believed he exsisted. I was out with a friend today. Where he asked me why I thought I had a soul mate... why anyone thought they had a soul mate. I didnt know what to say. What do you say to this comment. I know he's being very melodramtic when he asked me this, but I knew that the question was always bugging me inside, I just chose to avoid it.
I haven't seen any relationships that have lasted at all. The relationship that started out of love, now only stick together out of promises and commitments. The love no longer exsist and at one time the relationship comes to a point where no one argues because there is no feeling between the couple. Once the person who couldn't go without a day unless he/she saw their lover, now goes without weeks on end without seeing them.
Does this mean they haven't found their soul mate? But if they loved each other at one time... what happened? There are 6,518,755,247 people in the world. How can we be linked to one of them because that one might be across the world from where you are.
But regardless of all that has been said there is one thing I will hold on to. Even if everything I believe in isnt true. I will hold on to the fact that one day I will meet my soul mate. I know that my soul mate exsist. It doesnt mater I havent met him yet... honestly I dont care. But knowing that someone is out there to complete me is a better belief than living my life knowing that soul mates dont exsist.
When I meet him... my whole body should go electrified and this feeling shouldn't go away... at all! Soul mates are people who understand you, who know what makes you happy and knows how to bring a smile on your face. Even in this world of Mr me me me, Mr S, The man and Mr Hair gel... there should be... some where out there... Mr Soul Mate. No matter who this is... no matter where he is... I know he exsist.
I had a friend ask if friendship was the best form in finding your soul mate. I said no straight away. Because even if friendship exsist before a relationship... the arugement would then be formed that whether its a good idea to have a relationship which will knowingly break a friendship.
There are many comments that are decided when a person seeks out when looking for their other half. But at the same time while dweling over how your other half maybe... the thought occured to me that maybe I might not be right for my other half. I met a guy who Ive come to know in the past few months. He works with me and when ever he's around he makes me laugh. He knows how to put a smile on my face, we share little secret jokes and he comments on how I look without being obvious. But am I right for him? He's come from America, he had parents who are still together and he who has seen more countries than me... He wants someone who is different from me... Trust me I know he does. That puts everything is a different perspective.
I wonder how I'll find my soul mate. Maybe I already know him. Maybe Il never meet him. What ever the obsticles that come in my way... I know Il suvive through it and no matter what I do in my future I wont wait for him to come. Coz now its not about the knight in shining armour coming to save me and take me away. Its about me driving my car and going where ever I want. And if along the way I come across my soul mate that'l be great. Until then its just me, myself and I.
I've had my ups and downs in all relationships... But I always wondered whether in the future I would meet Mr Right. I grew older and my Mr Right changed... yet I still believed he exsisted. I was out with a friend today. Where he asked me why I thought I had a soul mate... why anyone thought they had a soul mate. I didnt know what to say. What do you say to this comment. I know he's being very melodramtic when he asked me this, but I knew that the question was always bugging me inside, I just chose to avoid it.
I haven't seen any relationships that have lasted at all. The relationship that started out of love, now only stick together out of promises and commitments. The love no longer exsist and at one time the relationship comes to a point where no one argues because there is no feeling between the couple. Once the person who couldn't go without a day unless he/she saw their lover, now goes without weeks on end without seeing them.
Does this mean they haven't found their soul mate? But if they loved each other at one time... what happened? There are 6,518,755,247 people in the world. How can we be linked to one of them because that one might be across the world from where you are.
But regardless of all that has been said there is one thing I will hold on to. Even if everything I believe in isnt true. I will hold on to the fact that one day I will meet my soul mate. I know that my soul mate exsist. It doesnt mater I havent met him yet... honestly I dont care. But knowing that someone is out there to complete me is a better belief than living my life knowing that soul mates dont exsist.
When I meet him... my whole body should go electrified and this feeling shouldn't go away... at all! Soul mates are people who understand you, who know what makes you happy and knows how to bring a smile on your face. Even in this world of Mr me me me, Mr S, The man and Mr Hair gel... there should be... some where out there... Mr Soul Mate. No matter who this is... no matter where he is... I know he exsist.
I had a friend ask if friendship was the best form in finding your soul mate. I said no straight away. Because even if friendship exsist before a relationship... the arugement would then be formed that whether its a good idea to have a relationship which will knowingly break a friendship.
There are many comments that are decided when a person seeks out when looking for their other half. But at the same time while dweling over how your other half maybe... the thought occured to me that maybe I might not be right for my other half. I met a guy who Ive come to know in the past few months. He works with me and when ever he's around he makes me laugh. He knows how to put a smile on my face, we share little secret jokes and he comments on how I look without being obvious. But am I right for him? He's come from America, he had parents who are still together and he who has seen more countries than me... He wants someone who is different from me... Trust me I know he does. That puts everything is a different perspective.
I wonder how I'll find my soul mate. Maybe I already know him. Maybe Il never meet him. What ever the obsticles that come in my way... I know Il suvive through it and no matter what I do in my future I wont wait for him to come. Coz now its not about the knight in shining armour coming to save me and take me away. Its about me driving my car and going where ever I want. And if along the way I come across my soul mate that'l be great. Until then its just me, myself and I.
# posted by Ice.Fire : Monday, May 29, 2006
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